I actually have hands on experience with this, I made a flame recently and I got distracted and made it before I was done making it so im stuck with a flame I hate and is unfinished. So we should be able to send our flame to someone and get a full refund on it.

Or you can just report it to the Toribash Staff member about the flames.

You get a confirmation window before spawning your flame, so if you still forge it unfinished that's your fault. No refunds.