That paragraph about balance is not really detailed.
I pretty much only win due to my skills with maintaining balance, controlling opponents balance and so on.
anyways, add these to balance thing:
Always have extended ankles in order to stay on the ground.
Use lumbar and chest to throw opponents out of their balance.
i'll edit more later.
Comebacks in aikido/abd are the same as comebacks in mushu or lenshu. You just contract your knees and wrists, doing some magics and done, you're nearly around your opponent.
Kiki, you should add something about preventing wrists dms, when wrist just breaks by hitting the ground or randomly rips off when you and your opponent grabbing each other's wrists.
P.S. Sorry if i'm explaining it badly, can't into English :3