Don't you have any other flame activated on the same joint?
Do you have a flame texture? And a texture picture?

I'm not a flame forging expert, but maybe you just srewed up the forging. In your item.dat your flame appears as:

FLAME0 0; 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 100 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0

yeah i know... maybe something did happen with the forge, any way that i can get a refund to re-make it?

sorry for double but is there any possible way of getting a refund for a flame?

I think theres none though..

No one here seems to know, what's going, I would try the following link. http://forums.toribash.com/forumdisplay.php?f=344 go here, see if they know. Maybe stick to PMs, I don't know how they take support questions in their board.

I would also suggest to PM Fnugget, he's a professional flame forger, he can tell you more about this flame forge and about your flame.