alright so I just need to increase my ELO by winning games?

Yes, thats right. you can view your elo here btw: http://forum.toribash.com/tori_ranking.php?username=

This is pretty awful what am i going to do.

you are just a blue belt, with sooo much to learn. I would recommend to stay in the servers for your belt, and practice with people that are equally good as you.