well when i started playing the game i wasn't real sure what to do when i hit multiplayer,so i loged in with the fourms stuff for multiplayer or somethen without actually loging in the way you are suspose to,cause i didn't know better.so now it is fucked up and i can't play multiplayer any way someone can help me?

First topic in the FAQ is How to start playing Toribash online

i know that >.> but when i type in my exact information for login on toribash and hit enter NOTHING happens.... it is weird then when i go to main screen it still says login and doesn't let me online.

same here but you see it wont say that you are logged in
when you go to the login screen login once then go straight to multiplayer

reguardless if i login or not i am unable to go to multi player

Could you post a screen shot of what happens when you try to go into multiplayer?