You can PM any user by finding his profile, going to contact tab and there should be 'send pm' option. You can do it via url-hacking, typing the nick at the end takes you to that person's profile. http://forum.toribash.com/member.php?username=
Also on the main page if you scroll to bottom, slightly above the list of online users, there's a "view toribash staff" link. Ryan is an admin, so you can go into that list and it has "send PM" on the right.
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