shading huh? uummm, here, this is wat I usually do....
Ctrl+L the click the layer you want to shade then right click>alpha to selection the right click on the image>shrink..... play with those for a while and the make a new layer by pressing ctrl+shif+n and color the layer with a brighter color then gaussian blur it.....
For the tools you can use dodge/burn tool and airbrush tool....