i uploaded my new head it shows the pic in my inventory but it isnt updating my head ingame.

same happened to me and my clan member, it must be backfire or something from the server migration.

its on 1.91

You have to download the new version (3.94)
You can also download a patch to play in older clients, check this: http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=323196

on 1.94 i just have the tori standart head