Well, when im wanted play multiplayer, i dont have any server on list,
so please help me i have toribash version 3.83

Update your version to 4.5 it could be that, I am no expert in these things but you cloud try

http://www.toribash.com/downloads.php

There is the link

Yes you need to update your version. To play mp you must have version 3.9 or later.

Thanks