OK so I have Toribash, it runs perfectly except for one thing... Toribash never connects to Multiplayer. it goes to the lobby that shows all the servers to join, and that works. BUT! when I join a room, it doesn't connect. so what shows the picture in the link so that you can see what it is~

http://s1155.photobucket.com/user/hystymystwood/media/anywaytofixthis_zps497d4ca4.png.html?filters[user]=139977994&filters[recent]=1&sort=1&o=0

if you guys can tell me what should I do in order to solve this, I'd be REALLY grateful you did!

OK, so the reason being is that I'm going to have to port forward it... the problem is that I'm going to have to need the codes to put in to my ports so it may work. if you know them please reply them to me ASAP!