When ever I boot up my toribash it works fine in freeplay but multiplayer it just closes unexpectantly... im on windows 8 and I use an AMD FX(tm) 6300 six core processer 3.50 GHz...

if you know what I should update and how, all help would be appreciated

You can try to install toribash again. Maybe you don't have the newest version?

Check this please.
*Run as administrator
*update everything
*backdate
*link