how do you check the toribash email account i cant activate mine!!!

Do you mean private messages?

Go to your assigned e-mail, and check for an activation email

Go to your email and check your messages and copy something... thats all i know.

try this: make an email account and put it in the box,then send the link and do the rest, that is what i did.

If you lost your password, contact your email provider or fill a form of password recovery.
Unless you mean Private Messages..

i want to activate my account...

Then check your email inbox or spam but if you can't find it then you need it resended. All I know.

Do you mean activated your account? Go to here http://forum.toribash.com/register.php?do=requestemail

set your email adress and put send activation code