So i was trying to login with another phone and then my password didnt work so then i got on the one that i didnt need to logon and tried to change my password but i couldent because i forgot my password

Maybe someone just hacked me and changed my password

You kind of can't. It's your job to remember the password. And your only other option was the email I think.

try getting a admin to do a reset over your email

Why are people so ignorant as to what the game masters do? They don't do password resets, or any profile customisation for that matter. You need to PM an admin (Bright Red Bold Names).

yea that is what i ment srry

My guess would be to try to get response on #support for most quickly resolution. If an admin is there to respond. Or wait.

I'm guessing you would be asked be asked some questions.

Your email provider, though, would be another matter..so my advice to would be to FIRST make sure you are in sole control of your email. Contact provider for that.

If someone has control of, or access to your email, trying to keep toribash, steam or any other account connected to it is near futile.

But with these (email providers), you might have to be able to provide e.g scanned driver license, passport, confirming postal address, or any other ID that proves you are the owner, if asked...it just takes time, but usually ends well if being serious, honest, and persistent.

But, after or when it hopefully resolved, change to accessible/real email , one which you can recover to in the future.

now that i remember my email i pressed the request password and its saying its being sent hopefully it works
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I am still waiting how long does this take?
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SkulFuk handled this.