on i dont know if i'm posting this in the right place, but you guys seem to be quite experienced, so i'm confused about the head textures. i know how to upload it and such, but it says that the picture will be stretched. i cannot compare a 2D image to a 3d sphere (the head) in toribash, so how do i know it will look right?

This belongs in Support

indeed it does, let me move it + get you a few little links that will help you out ;)

EDIT: :0 it was moved by some one else. lemme get those links

This should tell you every thing you need and it allows you to preview your image on a spinny head.

http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=16891

Thread moved & renamed ;)

Here are those links,
do what Skulschick said and also to upload go here
http://forum.toribash.com/tori_textures.php
and incase you haven't bought the texture item
to buy it go here
http://forum.toribash.com/tori_shop.php?cid=4