Title says it all, what fits your fighting style? me relax because it's how I played toribash in the beginning.

both...

Depends on the mod really.
Well, I haven't been ingame in a really long time but I kinda remember using relax a lot. Aikido is the mod I play on the most I find it easier to move around when starting it off in relax.

I only really use relax in Taekkyon and Aikido type matches.

Hold for all the fun mods.

Mainly relax because it makes better replay but I usually hold the bottom Half of my tori once I get good footing In aikido.

In Wushu I use both for different situations

I usually relax on all mods except judo. I find myself losing limbs if I don't hold in judo..

Both, it's fun as can be to experiment using either styles.

Hold for sparing, relax for other mods

Rold I say