when i try to safe trade when i try to accept it says

you cannot access this account

This item is not yours like 5 times and then it says

cannot send items

Activate your account if you haven't already.

How would i do that?

http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=340169

some reason i wont receive it

Did you set up an email account?

yes i did
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yes or i think i did

Well if everything checks out and the email address is accessible, then you should have gotten it. Make sure you check your spam file too.

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What items are you trying to safe trade?

Oh he was trying to scam me i just learned about that like a min ago