Today, I got on Toribash and I go on Jousting9 (One of my favorite servers) It has other people on it just in case you think the server is down. When I clicked it to join it says "Download of DarkWolve Complete" And then at the top left "Waiting" for like ten minutes.

Is this a glitch, bug, or what is this?

It was downloading your items, it happens all the time you play Toribash for the download complete. The waiting I don't know about.

Exit multiplayer when it's loading into single-player and then try again.
Happens to me on occasion.