toribash should be realistic right ? then when someone grabs my hand i try to hit him with my leg when i do he grabs it how could someone grab an arm and leg with one arm at the same time!

toribash isn't marketed as a realistic game

it's impossible to grab multiple joints with one hand

You sure you did not happen to have your own hand at grab too?

You sure it were not you who grab him, and he grab your leg or you selfgrabbed your own leg?