No matter what I do ctrl+enter or just selecting fullscreen to be off also changing the screen size won't work.

Delete and reinstall the game. This is the solution for this and has worked for the majority of people with this problem.
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Forgot to mention this - remember to make a backup of your replay folder, mods folder, lua/scripts folder, etc. basically anything you want to keep, save it to a seperate folder (probably on the desktop), and then do the first mentioned thing. Afte it is reinstalled, just paste the backup files into the toribash save location.

thank you it worked