when i bought Radio relax and Pri grade + vamp tourso they dont appaer in game i have activated them i just cant get them to show up

Don't do smiley-spam.

Deactivate everything you have and activate what you want.

You have to play In-game for 5 minutes for it to show up, I think...

You have to play until everything is downloaded [which might take more than 5 minutes, or less], if you want to see everything.
Do what I said in my 1st post and do this.