Can you explain the basics on how to meditate? I'm honestly interested.
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I started meditating around 6-7 years ago, dunno. I do it every day.
What it boils down to is that you become more aware of your body. I know pretty much instantly when something is wrong or why I feel bad. Also am able to tell what I need to be happy. It helped me become a happy person overall.
There is a lot of spiritual bullshit around meditation which is why I prefer to call it autogenic training.
The guide Isaac posted is, uh, very limited and incomplete. Those are the first few steps you take when you want to relax. Relaxing is not meditating, at least in my opinion.
As with regular physical training it is a good idea to set yourself a short term goal you wish to accomplish. E.g learning the source of your depression, being able be less tensed up all the time or w/e you can think of.
Make up your own techniques and figure things out yourself. Guides are usually rather bad and set you on paths that don't necessarily apply to you.
If you have an experienced person that can help you out that can be a big help though. I personally did guide a couple of people successfully through some sessions and they said it helped them a lot. I took into consideration what they told me before and induced what I thought would be best for them.
but ya
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I started meditating around 6-7 years ago, dunno. I do it every day.
What it boils down to is that you become more aware of your body. I know pretty much instantly when something is wrong or why I feel bad. Also am able to tell what I need to be happy. It helped me become a happy person overall.
True happiness can't be found from the external world. I'd guess that any desires you see as what you 'need' to be happy, is you being able to easily recognize your ego, but not willing to separate yourself from it.
There is a lot of spiritual bullshit around meditation which is why I prefer to call it autogenic training.
I avoid anything about chakras and other silliness, but Buddhism, Hinduism, other eastern religions that've been around for hundreds of years with the goal being enlightenment certainly have merit. I still ignore anything about past lives or chakras or etc though.
The guide Isaac posted is, uh, very limited and incomplete. Those are the first few steps you take when you want to relax. Relaxing is not meditating, at least in my opinion.
That's all that mindfulness meditation is, and it's all that you need to reach further mental states like the jhanas. One can do body scan meditation or whatnot, but the method is the same. Pick an object of focus and keep your attention on it. But obviously it was a brief guide. It's all a beginner needs to know. Once they run into something they have questions about, they can find it on their own.
As with regular physical training it is a good idea to set yourself a short term goal you wish to accomplish. E.g learning the source of your depression, being able be less tensed up all the time or w/e you can think of.
Make up your own techniques and figure things out yourself. Guides are usually rather bad and set you on paths that don't necessarily apply to you.
I'd say that non-striving is important or you're still stuck in the same ego trap of chasing one goal after the next, which is what meditation is used to put a stop to.
I agree with not using guided meditations on youtube or the like, but it'd be good for one to follow a school of teaching to some extent, but experiment and pick the one that resonates with them best.
If you have an experienced person that can help you out that can be a big help though. I personally did guide a couple of people successfully through some sessions and they said it helped them a lot. I took into consideration what they told me before and induced what I thought would be best for them.
but ya
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