Well, it is possible to be proud of yourself without making a huge spectacle out of it, but my stance is pretty much just "eh sure". I mean yes, the fact that pride parades can happen without people flipping their lids and being like "OH NO, HARMFUL LEVELS OF GAYDIATION WILL FAG UP MY DNA" is definitely a good thing (disregarding blatant trolls of course), but on the other hand, i'm also almost entirely indifferent about other peoples sexual orientation unless they want to get intimate, so i don't feel any particular need to know, be it in a game or meatspace.
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